Missed Femdom Opportunities #2

Dear Reader,

So, there it was. I was traveling home from an English class, and I saw a message pop up from an attractive looking lady called Su.

And yes, for those of you that have read the Sophia Bai series, it is indeed the VERY SAME Su that has been mentioned in that series ; her of the “cuckold” – – and more – – Chapter(s)!

That is a tale unto itself, of course, but let’s focus upon something else today.

That being, my second tale of a “missed femdom opportunity”, and what a one THIS one was.

As I got to know this lovely lady better, I learnt she was around 37 – – around my age  – – single (by that mean she wasn’t “attached”) and was hell bent on enjoying life as much as she could.

And part of that enjoyment was … yes, you guessed it … SEX!

She was a huge, huge fan of having sex on a regular basis. Multiple times a night. And certainly no “dry days” in a week for her.

Most of the Chinese girls I’ve been with and have met haven’t been that insistent on sex, but this lady sure was!

And one of the first things I got to know about her was her “preference” for selecting multiple men to bed, and then choosing the one (for the long term) who “satisfied” her the best.

Though she was somewhat reticent, and understandably so about telling me this, a red hot spark of DESIRE raced through my loins as soon as I heard this, and it was all I could to do stop myself from asking her about dick sizes etc when she said this!

Not to mention my own raging hard on every time she mentioned this …

“I’m not a slut though! Don’t think I’m a slut! I just enjoy sex”.

And this candid admission was something I admired, and is something I want to mention – – and why?

If a woman sleeps around – – she’s known as a “slut”. If a man does the same – – he’s known as a “stud”.

While I’m not condoning or condemning “sleeping around” – – I’d say what is good for the goose is good for the gander, and if this lady enjoys having sex, hell, I don’t see why she shouldn’t have the same rights as many of her male counterparts enjoy on a regular basis!

“If you’re with me, you can’t be with other women”.

“OK …”

“But if you don’t satisfy me in bed …” and there was a pregnant pause here; “Then I’ll look for other men, while I’m with you, and you need to accept it!”

And while I could tell she didn’t quite know how I’d react to this, my raging boner said it all!

So much so that I actually encouraged her to go out and “find other men” regardless, but this of course was a bad move.

“Why don’t you want to be with me? Can you not satisfy me in bed? I don’t want other men unless …”

And that was a key mistake I made right there – can you spot it?

The best part about all this?

Well, she lived in a different town from me. A town which is about 45 minutes away by train, and when I was going to meet her – – she actually had another man as a “backup option” – – and was brazen about it too!

“If you don’t work out, then I’ll go ahead and meet him too! I don’t want to waste my evening!”

Sage indeed, and as we got to know each other more, she naturally got to delve into my submissive side a lot too.

“You can clean my house, and keep it clean. I’m a messy woman … Oh, and you could rub my legs while I watch movies. I haven’t ever had a servant before, but I’d love to try it!”

“Oh and … you can wash my clothes too. Just don’t ruin them for heaven’s sake!”

And while all of this might sound like fantasy conversations taken out of my novels – – they aren’t. They’re all true – – and they all happened – – and it’s more from the “reality mixed in with a dose of creative license” philosophy that I go by in my books (although what I said above is 100% reality!).

Why didn’t this relationship turn into something “permanent”, then, you might ask?

Well, again – – although this lady would probably have gladly cuckolded me and kept me home as a “backup option” or a “real life paypig” or a “sissy” or a combo of the above, I still wasn’t comfortable coming to terms with who I really, really was – – and what I really, really wanted at the end of the day (at that point in time).

I don’t know if you’ve seen it, but there’s a great line in the movie Rambo III where the battle weary Rambo is shown trying to “recover mentally” in a Buddhist monastery somewhere in Thailand.

His commanding officer needs his help for a mission, and comes to him for help, but though he’s glad to see “Colonel Trautman”, he very categorically refuses to help, and says it’s “got to stop for him sometime”.

I mention more of this conversation in the Sequel to “an Indian Goddess”, but the Colonel responds with a question – a sage question indeed.

“When are you going to come full circle, John?”

“What do you mean” responds Rambo.

He then goes on to tell Rambo a story about a sculptor that made one of the most perfect sculptures there ever was.

When the craftsman was asked how he achieved such perfection in his art, his answer was simple.

He said he didn’t “make it”. He simply chipped away the rough edges – – the sculpture was “already there”!

This line is one that has stuck in my memory forever, and it makes perfect sense.

As the Colonel finishes off, “you’ll always be tearing away at yourself until you come to terms with who you are. Until you come full circle!”

Rambo nods.

“Maybe I’m not ready yet …” he finally says.

Well, I certainly wasn’t ready at the point I met Madam Su – – or even the lovely Ashley  – – and this reticence was in part what caused me to miss out on TWO excellent femdom related opportunities.

So if there’s one takeaway from this tale and yesterday’s – – it’s this – – BE COMFORTABLE with what you really want!

If being a cuckold and a sissy turns you on – – then be COMFORTABLE with it  – – and open yourself up not just to GETTING more opportunities in that regard, but ACTING upon them as well!

This is key, and something most folks ignore.

Along with this, make sure you pick up a copy of  “A complete guide to understanding dominant Chinese ladies from the mainland”. While that’s obviously a “niche” manual, the tips in there work just as well if you’re trying to find a dominant lady in general – – regardless of race or location!

Ok, that’s it for today. I’ll be back later with MORE missed femdom opportunities – – that I hope YOU will learn from!

Best,

Mike Watson

P.S. – I mention the “Indian Goddess” series above – – and it’s a series that will ALWAYS be dear to my heart for many reasons. Here is where you pick up the various books in the series – – https://spicyanderoticfetish.com/books/indian-femdom/