Girl, or cock, boy!

Hehe. Sage question for sissies, and a most humiliating one!

But its simple.

I once saw a meme with a lovely lady showing off her “jugs” in full bloom as it were, and then a massive cock with alovely flat stomach right next to it, with the tagline “Are you looking at my boobs, or his cock!”

And of course, the “if his cock is what grabs your attention first, you’re gay!”

This isn’t about labels etc. It was about the humiliation.

No, labels don’t matter -and they shouldn’t, and I’ve gone hoarse in the voice saying it. Shouting it from the rooftops!

Sissy Central, Cuck Central, I explain the same damned thing over and over again at the outset – that no, sissies and cucks – loving cock and being a sissy doesnt make you “gay”.

I mean, you’re doing it for her aren’t you?

Sure, cock sucking fantasies turn you on, but it’s again – about becoming a woman for him!

So girls, you see, are the most important, and if GIRLS or females don’t come into it, and if you have some sort of “emotional romantic” bond with the guy, it’s getting into “homosexual” territory or “gay” or what not, but even then, getting into, and most faggots and cucks are anything BUT gay.

Much like most alphas in real life are anything BUT in bed.

Much like NOT all cucks have small cocks, and all black guys dont really have the big monster mammoth black cocks we see so soften, glistening, gleaming and so forth, the pink heads so lovely on the cut ones (and the foreskin equally so on the others)!

And the phimotic ones.

Well!

Madam Ashley for one would have something to say about that.

But anyway, the grass is always “greener” on the other side, cuck, pun intended. Hehe.

And the point is this – that when YOU, the femdom lover that has signed UP HERE – looks at a picture like that, whats your first thought?

Lovely thick black member, real thick, but smooth too, the head cut and “smaller” but engorged .. the entire pole curved … and a lovely lady next to it cupping his bollocks and his PUBES so clearly visible!

Or, Master with his legs up in the air while she literally tongues his ass (I can relate – I do this to my Korean stud so often – well, not mine, but Lucy’s! This sissy is getting possessive for that beautiful ass and cock and balls she services so often! Smooch! What beautiful ass cheeks he has!) . . . and then sucks his balls hungrily, licking his perennial region.

Or anything like that where there’s a cock and a girl involved.

Whats YOUR first thought?

Most guys, straight or not, into femdom and cuckolding or bdsm or not … here’s the thing guys won’t admit, but a lot secretly think about the COCK more!

And servicing HIM rather than BEING serviced!

(Remember my so called straight friend who kept sharing dick pics in a group claiming “he did it just for fun” and on the other hand saying “I’d love to read your books!”)

(Remember the #1 Bozo on this planet Bozo Glyn Schofield who pesters women with”Madam can I be your servant” inannity out of the blue when drunk at 2 AM? You on this list do! I know!)

The way he said “NO! I’m not into fetishes” when I collared him about it (Josie told me) and told him “hey, it’s OK, everyone has ’em” said it all!

One thing not to be into, quite another to deny like he did, hehe. You get the point!).

Which is fine. Perfectly fine.

Hey. It’s ok, guys. It really, really IS!

Curiously enough and paradoxially as you can tell in “A complete guide to understanding dominant ladies from the Chinese mainland” thinking that way and allowing women their freedom gets YOU more of what you want – way more!

Femdom wise or not, it applies!

Give THEM what THEY want FIRST. You gotta give first. And you’ll get later!

In “spades”, pun intended. Hehe.

It’s worked for me that way in every aspect of my life.

Thats just how theUniverse functions.

As for me?

I certainly look at the cock more, BUT …!

And this is a huge BUT.

These things are not black and white – pun not intended here. Hehe.

If a GUY’s face is next to the cock, the impact reduces dramatically. 

If it’s just his dong, I love it!

And if it’s his dong with a lady, or two ladies, or more, I love it more!

Lets put it this way – my Korean stud is SOOOOOO sexy!

Shit.

I said “my” again, hehe.

He’s my Master, I should say.

But without Mistress Lucy egging me on to do what I do (more has been written on that before!) … I wouldn’t even have met him, if I had, I wouldn’t have had second thoughts.

So to me, end of the day, all about HER!

What are your thoughts?

Write back – let me know!

Best,

Mike Watson

PS – Pick up some of our tales of Chinese femdom done in REAL LIFE here. As I said this morning on Twitter, and on this site, and as I keep saying Chinese ladies are so naturally deliciously dominant, Asian ladies in general, but especially Chinese ladies from the mainland!

PS #2 – Saw a great quote from a lady this morning “focus on what you can do for her, not what OTHERS can do (and dont feel jealous etc focusing on the latter i.e. he sent this much, but I can’t, and so what will she think, and so forth!”  (paraphrasing)

In life, and femdom, it works that way. Focus on what you CAN DO and CHANGE, not what you cannot!

So sage!

Women into femdom -“truly into” – truly have BRAINS x 10!